Responsum: On a Woman Who Refuses to Accept a Co-Wife
A Ga’on
11th Century
You enquired:
If someone marries a second wife and the first one wants a divorce and says, “I refuse to accept a co-wife,” does she receive her ketubah payment or not?
Thus said the sages: “If he said, ‘Let me go and marry another wife,’ R. Ammi said: ‘He must divorce and pay the ketubah.’ Rava said, ‘A man may marry several women besides his wife…
This responsum, written in Hebrew by an unknown gaon, addresses the case of a wife who refuses her husband permission to take a second wife. In general, the geonim permitted men to marry multiple women, even against the first wife’s objections (see b. Yevamot 65a). In this case, the gaon rules that if the first wife persists in her refusal, she will be deemed a moredet (a rebellious wife) and would consequently forfeit certain financial rights, but the husband would be compelled to divorce her.
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Early Medieval Law and Religious Observance
Creator Bio
A Ga’on
Ga’on (lit. “pride”; pl. geonim) was the title of the official who presided over the rabbinic academies of Sura and Pumbedita. These were located on the Euphrates, near Fallujah in what is now Iraq, until the end of the ninth century, when first the academy of Pumbedita (ca. 892) and then that of Sura (early tenth century) moved to Baghdad, the largest and most important city in the Middle East. Correspondence, letters of investiture, and rulings issued by the academy’s courts went out under the gaon’s name. While the title of gaon did not automatically transfer from father to son, geonim were often chosen from among the members of a few select families.
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