Responsum: On a Woman Who Refuses to Accept a Co-Wife

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If someone marries a second wife and the first one wants a divorce and says, “I refuse to accept a co-wife,” does she receive her ketubah payment or not?

Thus said the sages: “If he said, ‘Let me go and marry another wife,’ R. Ammi said: ‘He must divorce and pay the ketubah.’ Rava said, ‘A man may marry several women besides his wife…

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This responsum, written in Hebrew by an unknown gaon, addresses the case of a wife who refuses her husband permission to take a second wife. In general, the geonim permitted men to marry multiple women, even against the first wife’s objections (see b. Yevamot 65a). In this case, the gaon rules that if the first wife persists in her refusal, she will be deemed a moredet (a rebellious wife) and would consequently forfeit certain financial rights, but the husband would be compelled to divorce her.

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