A Simple Girl: Redefining Mizrahi Womanhood
Ayelet Tsabari
2018
In the mid-eighties, after an impassioned campaign led by my brother and me, my mother had pirated cable installed in our house. One day, two burly men, unshaven and smelling of cigarettes, climbed on our roof and tinkered with the antenna. We weren’t the only delinquents; everyone on the street did it. Israeli television operated only one state…
Published in The Art of Leaving, a memoir-in-essays, Ayelet Tsabari’s “The Simple Girl” explores Mizrahi female identity through the lens of “The Freha Song,” made famous by Yemenite pop singer Ofra Haza. “Freha” is sometimes translated as “bimbo,” but this translation misses the nuances that the word had in Israel. A freha wasn’t just an airheaded woman, a “simple girl,” who only cared about lipstick and nail polish and fun, but more specifically, was a Mizrahi woman of this ilk. Tsabari wants to see the song as subversive, a protest against stereotyping of Mizrahi women performed by Haza, but ultimately she realizes that the song’s authorship by a member of the Ashkenazic elite—precludes it from such an interpretation. Perhaps it is this realization that spurred Tsabari to create new images of Mizrahi women in her writing.
How did Haza’s Yemenite identity influence the way that Tsabari, also Yemenite, saw her range of professional possibilities in her youth?
Why does Tsabari call Haza’s life her community’s “Cinderella story”?
Tsabari writes, “Even at eleven, I knew what frehas were—knew I didn’t want to become one.” How might this stereotype have affected the choices she made and the ways she presented herself?
Creator Bio
Ayelet Tsabari
Ayelet Tsabari is an award-winning Israeli-Canadian author and photographer. Her memoir, The Art of Leaving, won the Canadian Jewish Literary Award in 2019, and her novel Songs for the Brokenhearted (2024) received numerous accolades, including a National Jewish Book Award for fiction. Tsabari was born in Israel to a family of Yemeni descent, and her writing often draws on the traditions and experiences of Yemeni Jews.
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